1. Apply What You Learn
“Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.”
How many people do you know that read a lot of books and spend a lot of time buying courses, but never apply the knowledge they learn?
You may even notice these tendencies in your life. It’s hard to take action and apply what you learn, because we’re all afraid of failure, and taking action can be paralyzing from time to time.
However, success in life doesn’t happens until you use the knowledge that you have inside of you. Most of us have exactly what we need to get to our goals, but we make excuses not to even get started.
2. Learn, Discard, Create
“Absorb what is useful, Discard what is not, Add what is uniquely your own.”
It’s all well and good to learn from others, but it’s not until you take action that you discover what works and doesn’t.
When you discover what doesn’t work, you simply discard it and keep going. When you keep moving forward, you will create your own path.
Living a successful life is all about experimenting and trying new things. The more things you try, the closer you will get to true success.
3. Simplicity
“Simplicity is the key to brilliance.”
If you can simplify your life, your goals, and your tasks, you will not only be happier, you will also get more done and be more successful.
It was not until I started focusing on one single task and one major goal in my life that I started seeing rapid results in the direction of my dreams.
If you’re trying to go after multiple things at once, you will end up accomplishing none of them. Pick one thing that’s the most important to you and go after that.
The funny thing about focusing on one goal is that it seems that you’re neglecting all the others aspects of your life, but when you focus on one goal, magically the other aspects of your life improve, sometimes dramatically.
4. Break Barriers
“Using no way as way, using no limitation as limitation.”
We all have negative beliefs that stop us from being as successful in life as we would like.
The only person holding you back is you. Once you become comfortable with overcoming your fears, you will start seeing dramatic success in your life.
One of the most common characteristics of successful people is that they are willing to try new things and face their fears. They are not fearless, they are merely willing to do what it takes.
5. Be Open-Minded
“Take no thought of who is right or wrong or who is better than. Be not for or against.”
There’s no right or wrong in the universe. It’s completely subjective.
Getting caught up in the drama of who is right or wrong or who is better than will only distract you from reaching your goals and creating a successful life.
Stay open to new possibilities, and the viewpoints of others. You can never know what you will learn when you explore things you at first thought were pure nonsense.
6. Contribute
“Real living is living for others.”
It wasn’t until I found my passion and started contributing to the world with my writing that I started feeling fulfilled.
We all have our unique gifts that we can use to make the world a better place. These are usually talents and skills you have that you are very good at, and that you like to do.
It doesn’t matter if you like to make jewelry or if you enjoy cooking, because everything is connected to everything else.
You are here to make a difference with the talents you have. There’s a reason why you are you.
7. Manage Your Time
“If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.”
We are surrounded by distractions, such as e-mail, Twitter, and Facebook. They are great at connecting us to each other, but they distract us from what is truly important.
Learn to manage your time, and get the most valuable tasks done before you start to play. Use time management courses to get your life in order.
You can often double, triple, or even quadruple your productivity by using just a few simple time management tips.
A good one that I use is to write down the three most important tasks for the next day before I go to bed.
8. Be Flexible
“Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.”
Life will throw curve balls at you, so you have to get used to being flexible. The more comfortable you can be with being uncomfortable, the faster you will grow as a human being and the more success you will have in life.
This is exactly what distinguishes successful people from unsuccessful ones. Successful people are more willing to be uncomfortable, because they know that that is the fastest path to their goals.
Whenever you bump into something that makes you feel bad, stay flexible, and find the positive in the situation. I’ve found that most of the problems in my life are blessings in disguise.
The only thing separating positivity from negativity is time.
9. Set Goals
“A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.”
If you want to create your dream life you want you first have to know what you want. For the longest time I avoided setting goals, because I thought it was unnecessary.
It wasn’t until recently that I discovered that goal setting can not only make me more productive, it can also dramatically increase the clarity I have.
When you set goals, use the S.M.A.R.T criteria, which stands for specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and timely goals.
10. Be Patient
“A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough.”
One of my weaknesses is my impatience. However, I’ve learned to channel my impatience into getting more done and being productive.
It’s also important to realize that most of the things that are truly valuable in life take time.
For example, I discovered that creating an online business usually takes anywhere from 3 to 5 years, if your goal is a full-time income.
Whatever you do, keep taking small steps each day toward your primary goal, and you will be surprised at how much you can accomplish in just a few years.
11. Kill the Box
“All fixed set patterns are incapable of adaptability or pliability. The truth is outside of all fixed patterns.”
It’s easy to get into a rut, which is simply a familiar pattern that feels comfortable. If you truly want to grow as a person and lead a successful life, you have to get out of the box.
In fact, throw the box out altogether, and start following your heart wherever it leads you. This can be as simple as following your highest excitement in the moment.
Most people are stuck in their minds and never listen to their heart’s deepest desire. Don’t let this be you.
12. Control Your Thoughts
“As you think, so shall you become.”
What you think about, you draw into your life. If you’re constantly being negative, you will draw more negativity into your life.
Instead of focusing on the negative, think about what you want to get out of life and focus on the positive.
This is another way of telling you that you have to set goals and focus on those goals as often as possible. The results you will get by doing this will be dramatic.
Most people sit around whining about their miserable life, and then they wonder why nothing good ever happens to them.
13. Take Action
“If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.”
Don’t over analyze and over think. Take massive action even if things aren’t perfect before you start.
Most people that try to get things perfect never get started at all.
I used to be a perfectionist, but I realized that by taking action, I could get much more done and make much more progress.
I also realized that people don’t want perfect. They just want solutions to their problems.
14. Allow
“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.”
It’s easy to get stuck on what other people would think of you if you became successful. Most people are so afraid of this that they never rise above mediocrity.
It is not up to you to make people happy. You can only make yourself happy, and the way others react is just the way they will react.
Don’t let other people dictate how you live your life. Determine what you want, go after it, and don’t look back. You will be much happier for it.
15. Create Your Own Destiny
“To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.”
You can make all the excuses in the world, but nothing happens until you stop blaming your circumstances or people in your life, and take control of your life.
It is up to you to take responsibility for your life and create your own opportunities. You may not be able to do exactly what you want right now, but you have the opportunity to take steps toward it.
No one will create the dream life for you. You have to do it yourself.
16. Be You
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”
As I said earlier, you were born with unique talents, gifts, and skills. When you try to be someone you’re not, you will only attract people into your life that are not in harmony with you.
When you are you, and that includes the weird things about you, you will find that the most amazing and interesting people start popping up in your life.
Sometimes this may take years, and sometimes it can happen in just a few days. Let whatever happens be okay and go with the flow.
17. Have Integrity
“Knowledge will give you power, but character respect”
No success in life is worth it unless you have integrity.
It’s very hard to find people that are honest and have integrity as one of their highest values. It’s easy to throw in a lie here and there and try to manipulate people.
Only conscious people realize that this won’t make anyone happy in the long term. It might get you what you want in the short-term but it’s not a recipe for happiness.
Live with integrity, and people will respect you. And best of all, you will respect yourself which is a very desirable character trait.
18. Learn the Rules, Break the Rules
“Obey the principles without being bound by them.”
If you want success in life, learn what other successful people have done to get to where they are.
It’s important to learn the principles of success, but not be bound by them. Once you know what you need to do, follow your heart and your intuition.
If you want to learn how to create a profitable website for example, I recommend you sign up for a training course, and follow the instructions step-by-step.
Once you start seeing success, you can start breaking the rules and begin experimenting.
19. Do Things for You
“Showing off is the fool’s idea of glory.”
Life is not about impressing other people. If you try to show off, it will backfire.
And if you try to seek the approval of others, it will just make you miserable. The only person that needs to approve of you is you.
This goes hand in hand with many of the quotes above. You can only be you, and it is not until you reclaim your unique self that you can be truly great.
20. Believe in Yourself
“You just wait. I’m going to be the biggest Chinese Star in the world.”
Last, but definitely not least are the expectations you have of yourself. Your beliefs will determine the success you have in life.
There are ways to overcome limiting beliefs and negative expectations, but nothing happens until you accept that they exist within you.
And nothing happens until you take full responsibility for the life that you have created in this very moment.
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